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Family Relationships

Find Your Happiness by Working on Your Family

Today’s fast pace environment just doesn’t give couples the ability to sit down and enjoy each others company. We have to worry about the kids schooling, the soccer practices, dance classes, karate classes and the million other things that we all feel we need to do for our families in order to make us as parents feel that we are doing all that we can to help our children live normal and productive lives. But in reality, we are only burning ourselves out.
How do I go about changing my life?
Parent needs to come to the understanding that children will develop at their own pace. There is really no need to have your child signed up for 2 different sports and a class in order for them to fell accepted by society. They get all their time socializing and connecting with friends at school and playing in their local neighborhood. Sure a sport could be beneficial to your child, but only in the case that they want to play the sport. Not because you feel it would be good for them.
Sit down and have dinner together
Having a meal together is a great way for you to reconnect with your spouse and your children. It is common in many cultures that all dinners would be around a simple table without any distractions. No TV, radio, or gaming systems. Talk with other about your days. Sharing your activities will help your children see that you have an interest in what they do during the day.
Set up some family time
Running around like a chicken with your head cut off is not healthy for you or your family. Organize yourself with a planner and make sure to set up some family time a side in your schedule. Use this time to take the family to a move or out to a park. Have some fun. Think back to how you felt when you got to go to the park and spend time with your dad fishing or with your mom at the playground.
We all want what is best for our children in the future and feel obligated to do everything that we can to make sure they have those opportunities that we never had. But how would you feel now if you would not have had those special moments with your parents when you where growing up. Those are memories that will always stick with us throughout the rest of our lives.…

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Love a “Loser” and Build a Healthy Happy Family

Sometimes we are very fortunate to be backed by a strong support team. Ironically, though it is sometimes those closest to us who succeed in derailing our attempts to unlearn destructive lifestyle habits.
Parents often exhort children to “eat up, it is good for you”. Thereby you establish a vicious cycle where food intake is equated with love and approval. The implication to this is that if your child does not eat all the food that has been prepared, he is made to feel ungrateful and unloving. If you see food as a reward and a substitute for love, you will probably be one to use it as a source of comfort every time you experience a crisis, with disastrous consequences for your weight and health. Let them be when they do not want to eat anymore, and build a healthy family.
Then there are also the loving parents, who discourage their beloved ones slimming attempts. “I love you just the way you are, you do not need to lose weight” they would say. These people might be trying to manipulate you psychologically, out of some sort of feat that if you lose weight you will be more difficult to control. A slim, healthy attractive part might be viewed as a threat. The particularly happens when your partner has also steadily gained weight over the years. Get your partner to join you in your weight loss efforts and build a healthy happy family.
Once you have made up your mind to achieve optimum healthy, and to gain control over your weight, it is vital that you let “diet detailers'” know you are wise to their tricks. Those who love you dearly may not even be aware that they are attempting to sabotage you, and they could be very hurt if you confront the issue with them too forcefully. Take it gently yet firmly and explain to them how much it means to you to lose weight and also to get the whole family to join in order to build a healthy family. Try to turn this into an opportunity to spend more quality time together. Ask them to be your weight loss buddy and build a healthy happy family. This will provide you with the vital back-up support system that you need. And it will also eliminate any feelings of insecurity they might experience as you begin to reveal your new slimmer sexier healthier body.
When you reach a milestone in your weight loss journey, do not be afraid to shout if from the rooftops. Chances are good that when your friends and your family see your enthusiasm and your happiness, they will begin to provide the much needed support you crave.
Your remarkable achievements will be as much a tribute to your loved ones as it is to your own determination.…

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Ensure That Your Family Eats Healthy – Build a Healthy, Happy Family

Ensure that your family eats healthily this year by following these tips:
o Work to add fruits and vegetables into the daily routine. Aim for a goal of at least five servings a day.
o Keep fruits and vegetables on hand and ready to eat, therefore making it easy for your child to choose healthy snacks. Healthy and tasty snacks include low-fat yogurt, peanut butter and celery, or whole-grain crackers or bread and cheese.
o Serve them with lean meats and other good sources of protein at meal times, such as fish, eggs, beans, and nuts.
o For more fiber in their diets, choose to have whole-grain breads and cereals.
o Limit their unhealthy fat intake by avoiding deep-fried foods and choose to have healthier home-made cooking methods, such as boiling, grilling, roasting, and steaming. Choose low-fat or non-fat dairy products.
o Limit your family’s fast food and other low-nutrient meals and snacks, such as fast food, chips and sweets.
o Limit sugary drinks, such as soda and fruit-flavored drinks. Serve water and low-fat milk instead.
o Establish a predictable set schedule of meals and snacks. It prevents nibbling as the family knows when to expect the next meal.
o Don’t force your children to clean their plates as it encourages them to overeat. Let them eat till they are full and let them leave whatever is left on the plate, at home and anywhere else you eat as well. This is a habit that can easily be carried through their entire life.
o Don’t bribe or reward kids with food or snacks.
o Don’t use food as a way of showing love. When you want to show love, give kids a hug, some of your time, or praises your attention and your unconditional love.
These are only a few tips on how to build a healthy happy family this year. Start today, love your family and give them the best you can give them.…

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3 Simple Tips to Make Family Time a Good Time in Your Hectic Life

Any working person’s life can become extremely hectic at times. The common suspects are: a busy schedule, loads of work, as well as faithfully keeping the promise to never put off until tomorrow any work that you can do today. As a consequence, you may be totally satisfied with your rapid career advancements. Yet, this imbalance is very bad for your family life, as it can make you lose the precious bond with your spouse and children.
If you suspect that you are losing touch with your family, you need to do your best to avoid making the matters worse. Here are three tips and tricks that could help you start spending more quality time with your family, even if you have an extremely hectic life:
1. Plan your day or week in advance. Scheduling your day or even a week in advance could take as little as 15-30 minutes, but it could truly make a difference for your family. Thus, you could start bringing your “family relationship improvement plan” to life without sacrificing what needs to be done at work.
2. Turn off your cell phone every now and then. When it comes to spending time with your family, a cell phone is one of the most disruptive devices. If you have scheduled a family outing, make sure that your cell phone will not disrupt it. Consider setting a new voice message that will state that you are currently unavailable.
3. Try to achieve a 50/50 work-family balance. Being a success at work and “failing at family” cannot do anyone any good. Try to be a success at both, home and at work.
Keep reminding yourself that your spouse and children are your first priority. Time spent with your family is invaluable, while time lost cannot be compensated.
Relationships take an effort to build, and yet it’s so easy to damage these bonds by constantly being busy, distant and unavailable. Being continuously distant can lead to a family relationship cool-down, which may be hard to warm up again.…

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Family Happiness

Happy Family? It’s Easy!

Home evening family activities are the all kind of activities that can bond our family, and make us happier!
There are a lot of tasks we have to do at home. Such as cooking, cleaning, making a laundry, watching TV etc. Usually, we do those tasks at evenings, when we return from job. Those activities are very important, but we have to remember what task is the most important and try not to skip on it. The most important task, in my opinion, is investing in our family.
Why does it important to invest in our family is pretty obvious. We have to remember that our family is like a business. If we want it to work well, we have to invest! It means to help our kids with their home work, to play with them (even if we are tired), to be with our partner and to do family activities together.
Activities that are advisable for the whole family are those activities where each member of the family participates. For example, if we decide to make a dinner together, we have to make sure that everyone knows his task. Kids can arrange a table or make a salad, the adults can make a pancakes etc. It’s a great way to make a good atmosphere.
We can divide activities into categories like sport, thinking games, cooking, performances etc. When we decide what activity to do today, we have to see the whole picture. It means, if we did a singing performance yesterday we will not do it today! And if we already cooked this week we will prefer to do something else.…

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Christmas Activities For Any Happy Family

Christmas is a time that most families especially children look forward to. It is a season of joy, bonding and lot of fun. It is a period for families to come together engaging in various activities. These activities could be indoor games or outdoor sports. The indoor games vary from family to family for some; it could be printable games like cross word puzzle, scrabble, snakes and ladder, chess and monopoly. These various indoor games help to bring togetherness and oneness in the family. Christmas time is also a time when family members that have been away for a long period of time get to come together again.
Outdoor Christmas activities come in various forms and they range from snowballing to going to the park, and if you are living in sunny areas, also trips to the beach. Some other activities also include Christmas mazes, hunting and Christmas parties, which are most popular with people. These outdoor activities help indeed enhance bonding among family members, hoping for a better future together. This article will be focusing on various activities that can be embarked on during Christmas period or at Christmas time.
If during Christmas you decide to stick to staying in your house, there are several indoor games that will appeal to you. For example there are various printable games that can be bought from any departmental store or shop. Some of these games can also be purchased through the internet by searching through search engines, or going directly to the shop’s website.
There are also Christmas worksheets available that help little children in solving problems. The worksheets help the children in becoming creative and independent. Another indoor Christmas activity includes drawing and painting by little children. There could also be recitation of poems and story telling. Sudoku is also a very important indoor game that families can indulge in. This game act as a brain teaser and is more complex that really engages the brain. The game is good for teenagers and adults. While little children are engrossed in their drawing and painting, adults can have a game of sudoku by the fire.
As I mentioned before, Christmas can also be spent outdoors by engaging in various Christmas activities. Some of these includes building snow men and creating snow birds. It is also possible to engage in solving Christmas mazes. These mazes challenge the minds of children to think clearly and distinctly to find the way out of the maze. It is also possible for a member of the family to act as Santa Claus giving out gifts to other family members and friends.…

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Ten Ways to Feel More Fulfilled and Build a Healthy Happy Family

Number one: Do not ever imagine that possessions can fulfill you. You will find that it is your family and your friends who make you happy. Therefore spend more time with them rather than working to buy material things.
Number two: Ask yourself the questions whether you live to work, or work to live? Are you working for a living or are you doing the work you love, for life? Try to do what you love and to love what you do as well.
Number three: Be grateful for what you have, instead of chasing gratification. Chances are you have much more than the average man on the street. It is time you learn to appreciate what you have.
Number four: Get rid of all the clutter. Clutter makes you feel stressed, and it encroaches on your personal space. Spring clean your house, the extra space and neat environment will help you to relax.
Number five: Get yourself a hobby. To do something that you love is of the greatest ways to find fulfillment. Think about something that interests you, and try to pursue that. Whether it is reading, writing, gardening or a creative hobby. It will help you become for centered.
Number six: Do your best at everything you do. By working hard at everything you do. You will feel so much happier with what you have achieved. It feels so much better to give your all, even if you are not successful, than to fail because you just did not even try hard enough.
Number seven: Be open and accepting of the opportunities that come your way, instead of ignoring them or trying to avoid them. Challenge yourself by spotting opportunities and grasping them with both hands. Not only will you probably improve your lot in life, but you will also grow tremendously as an individual.
Number eight: Treat the people around you as you would treat yourself, or as you would have them treat you. This tends to make much better company of you, and people will are prone to be more open and honest with you if you treat them well. Just think how amazing things are when you get along well with other people. Then why do you not try this all the time then?
Number nine: Make communication a priority. There are so many arguments that start because of a simple misunderstanding. Be open and honest with those around you. Greater understanding will leave you more at peace with those around you especially those you love.
Number ten: Adopt a positive motto and then live by it. With everything you do, ask yourself whether it is bringing you closer to your goal, or is it driving you further away from it?
Then always remember that a feeling of fulfillment is not something you acquire overnight, you have to work at it every day. And once it is attained, it will not leave you. Keep moving forward eyes ahead, and leave your past where it belongs, firmly behind you.…