A facilitator is an intermediary between an expectant mother and a family looking for a newborn. This intermediary takes care of the location, advertisement, and match between the two. A facilitator will work to match the two parties and ensure that the adoption is successful.

Working With An Adoption Facilitator

The advantages and disadvantages of working with an adoption facilitator vary, depending on your circumstances. Although they can save you money, they can also result in less quality service and lower value for money. For example, adoption facilitators are often smaller organizations, and their staff is overworked. This can delay response times, which is detrimental to the adoption process.

According to the birth mothers support group Arizona, adoption facilitators work by advertising for new families in a national adoption directory, and they refer birth parents to a licensed adoption agency. However, their services are subject to less regulation than an adoption agency. If you don’t want to work with a facilitator, consult a licensed adoption agency or an experienced adoption attorney before signing any contracts.

Duties Of An Adoption Facilitator

An adoption facilitator plays an important role in matching newborns with new families. Adoption facilitators can provide a wealth of advice and information to help parents prepare for the process. They can also act as a conduit for communication and help with the various issues that arise during the process. Adoption facilitators should register with the state’s Department of Social Services (CDSS). The registry is a government-sponsored program designed to protect birth and adoptive parents. In California, adoption facilitators must register with the state under Family Code section 8632.5. The CDSS provides administrative oversight of the registry. In addition, adoption facilitators who provide services under the Hague Convention must be accredited by the Council on Accreditation.

Cost Of Working With An Adoption Facilitator

Adoption facilitators are companies that connect prospective adoptive parents with expectant mothers. The adoption facilitator is the middleman between the expectant mother and the new parents. Most facilitators have not licensed adoption professionals and are unregulated. Some states even prohibit their use. The costs of working with an adoption facilitator vary, depending on whether the services are individualized or general adoption services. Some charge a flat fee for matching newborns to new parents, while others charge a fee based on state requirements. Most adoption facilitators are not reviewed annually or periodically and may not have the most current information about state adoption laws and policies. Many licensed adoption agencies offer financial assistance to pregnant women to help them cover living expenses during pregnancy. These fees can include rent, maternity clothes, medical bills, insurance, and transportation. They may also cover the cost of childbirth. 

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While the role of an adoption facilitator may seem straightforward, there are some essential considerations that you should keep in mind. Some states have strict regulations regarding adoption facilitators. For example, facilitators must be registered, fingerprinted, and bonded in California. Although these regulations vary, most states have some oversight.

The role of an adoption facilitator is to match expectant mothers and families to make adoption more likely. This process involves finding and contacting expectant mothers, advertising for newborns, and matching them with new parents. The role of an adoption facilitator can be highly valuable, but it can also come with some risks. One example is the National Adoption Center, a nonprofit group in Philadelphia. They have placed about 16,000 children since 1972 and 450 of them since 1995, thanks to a Web site that helps match birth mothers and adoptive families. The National Adoption Center reports that more than one in four adoptions in the United States began through an Internet search. 

Lack Of Post-Adoption Services

Although adoption is a positive experience for many families, many parents experience difficulties after adoption. Post-adoption support and services are essential for these families. The Adoption Foundation of the Capital Region (AFFCNY) is an organization that works to improve adoption services in New York State. Adoptive families face similar stressors as other new parents. The changing roles and responsibilities may lead to increased stress, sleep disruption, and changes in intimate relationships. However, few studies have attempted to examine adoptive parents’ experiences over time. T

It’s a Mouse Potato World

One of my favorite photos is a shot of our younger daughter at age two. She’s standing at the desk, her chin just barely clearing the top. Her hand is working the mouse as she plays on our computer. When I was two, I didn’t even know how to operate the television set, let alone a computer.

The electronic devices available for home use has grown exponentially. Many homes have multiple televisions, computers and cell phones. DVD players, MP3 players, home theater systems and game consoles are becoming more common. Electronics aimed at young children, such as Leapfrog and other teaching aids. In fact, the average age children begin to use electronic equipment is getting lower every passing year.

What does this have to do with childhood obesity? When we were growing up, the TV might or might not work, and when it did we had three channels. There was no equipment to play movies, you either went to the movies or watched them on TV. We spent a lot of time playing outside. We rode our bikes or played pickup baseball.

In fact, while we referred to it as playing, we exercised.

Many women still grew and preserved food when we were growing up, my mother, grandmother and aunts included. We kids were conscripted to help weed the garden, pick the produce and preserve it. That’s a lot of work. We also lived on a farm for many years. Added to the garden were chickens, ducks, rabbits and other domesticated animals that needed our care.

That translated to grooming, cleaning cages, gathering eggs and otherwise caring for the animals. It meant a whole lot of mowing, so that we could keep the grounds looking nice and occasionally provide extra nourishment for the grazers. That, too was a lot of work. All of that work did provide us with lots of exercise and healthy food to eat.

We’ve mostly lost that lifestyle now. Instead, our kids play on the computer, use a gaming system, text message each other and otherwise stay indoors and inactive. It might be an idea to limit the amount of time and the type of device our children use. Take them outside and play an active game with them. Plant a small garden and teach them how to grow things. Show them the learned as children.

They are our future, and the responsibility lies with all of us.…

Puberty and Sex Hormones and Their Effect on Your Body

For every boy and girl, there comes a time just before or early into their teen years when they experience a major change in their body’s natural chemistry. This change is caused by a surge of hormones – sex hormones to be specific.

Sex hormones are produced in minuscule amounts in early childhood and have very little activity until puberty. In most cases puberty starts when a child is 11 to 13 years old. The actual age is determined by one’s genetic makeup and heredity.

Regardless of when it happens, puberty causes the sex glands (ovaries in girls, testes in boys) and the adrenals in both sexes to manufacture and release into the blood large quantities of sex hormones. Estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone flood the system, which causes rapid transformation of a child into a young woman or a young man.

Girls start developing a clearly feminine form, with the appearance of breasts, pubic and armpit hair, and a female hour-glass figure. When the levels of estrogen and progesterone become high enough, a girl will ovulate and get her first period. This flood of hormones causes mental and emotional changes as well. I am sure you are familiar with the rapid mood swings and short tempers teenagers can have. But most importantly, high levels of hormones are responsible for the glowing health and boundless energy that most teenagers enjoy. They can eat an incredible amount of junk food and not gain an ounce. They can go without much sleep for days. They hardly get sick and if they do, their recoveries are usually speedy and complete. They tend to have a positive and optimistic outlook on life.

The sex hormones have a stimulating effect on energy production, causing the cells to burn more fuel at a greater rate. This is why teenagers have such a high metabolic rate, which allows them to consume a lot of food, seemingly without any consequences. In general, high levels of sex hormones have nothing but positive effects on the health and well-being of kids going through puberty.

While estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone are known as the sex hormones, they are not fully intended for the purposes of sex, especially since teens are not prepared emotionally and financially for handling reproductive responsibilities. As we grow, these hormones take on a vital role in the proper development and regulation of the body’s essential functions, especially in women.…

Pediatric Brain Tumors and Brain Cancer Alter the Definition of Normal

For most of us, today will begin like any other day. We’ll sip our coffee, skim the morning paper, drop the kids off at school, and perform the normal rituals that make up our daily lives. The good, the bad, and yes, even the somewhat ugly; we’ll tackle it all with confidence and a sense of comfort, knowing that tomorrow, as routine as it may be, we’ll get to do it all over again.

But, for several families across America, today will be different. Today will be life-changing.

Today…

• Nine families will learn their child has a brain or spinal cord tumor;

• Three families will mourn the loss of their child to this dreadful disease; and

• Six families will transition to survivorship.

Each year, an estimated 3,400 children in the United States are diagnosed with a brain tumor or brain cancer. Approximately one-third of these children will survive no more than five years, making this the deadliest of all childhood cancers. For the families of these kids, there will never be another “normal” day. Their days will now be filled with medical appointments, treatment options, and learning how to operate within a new definition of “normal.”

Thankfully, hope springs eternal. The survival rate for children with brain tumors and brain cancer has increased significantly over the past twenty years. Advancements in research have resulted in better treatment methods, improvements in the quality of life and the long-term outlook for these young patients. However, survival does bring with it an all-new set of unique challenges. Treatments can cause damaging late effects on survivors; effects that range from cognitive impairment, to physical challenges, to social isolation.

Collaborations between nonprofit organizations, research foundations and leading medical institutions have proven to be instrumental in the fight against these childhood cancers. By joining forces, these groups are able to connect the best of the best to keep research moving forward, raise public awareness, and provide support to the patients and families who need it.

Several non-profit organizations have been established over the years to provide help to families who find themselves on this new and very difficult life path. Most of these groups offer resources for education, assistance with medical and financial services, and much-needed emotional support through a variety of family outreach programs and special events.

These nonprofit organizations work tirelessly in their battle to make pediatric brain tumors and brain cancers a disease of the past. They are continually searching for research partners, corporate sponsors, and private foundations to help support ongoing research. Individual donations are also critical to the success of these organizations. While much work is being done, and progress is being made, the need to raise awareness, fund research, and provide support is ongoing.

A quick Internet search and a few simple clicks of the mouse will land you on the website of one of these dedicated, nonprofit organizations. Once there, you’ll likely find an abundance of valuable information, along with resources and opportunities to help. Why not spend a little time today learning more about this devastating disease? Perhaps, make a donation, or even sign on as a volunteer. Not only can you help to redefine “normal” for these kids and their families; you might just alter your own idea of “normal” as well.…